Essentials: Science of Building Strong Social Bonds with Family, Friends & Romantic Partners

In this Huberman Lab Essentials episode, I discuss the science of social connection and how we form meaningful bonds with others.

I explore the neural basis for "social homeostasis"—our drive for a certain amount of social interaction—which explains why we feel lonely, seek connection and how we navigate social hierarchies. I also explain how the brain and neurochemicals, such as oxytocin and dopamine, shape our relationships from infancy through adulthood and underlie traits like introversion and extroversion. The episode also offers practical insights into forming deeper connections and how shared experiences with others enhance social bonding.

Articles

• Dorsal Raphe Dopamine Neurons Represent the Experience of Social Isolation (Cell)
• Conscious processing of narrative stimuli synchronizes heart rate between individuals (Cell Reports)

People Mentioned

• Allan Schore: faculty, department of psychiatry and behavioral sciences, UCLA
• Lisa Feldman Barrett: professor of psychology, Northeastern University.