Essentials: How Humans Select & Keep Romantic Partners in the Short & Long Term | Dr. David Buss
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In this Huberman Lab Essentials episode, my guest is Dr. David Buss, PhD, a professor of psychology at the University of Texas at Austin and a pioneer in the field of evolutionary psychology.
We explore the science behind human mate selection in both short- and long-term relationships. We discuss universal traits valued in long-term partners along with key differences between women and men in what they prioritize when selecting a mate. We also discuss the darker aspects of mating behavior, such as deception, the evolutionary function of jealousy and the motivations behind stalking.
Articles
- Sex differences in human mate preferences: Evolutionary hypotheses tested in 37 cultures (Behavioral and Brain Sciences)
- The evolution of intimate partner violence (Aggression and Violent Behavior)
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Dr. David Buss: How Humans Select & Keep Romantic Partners in Short & Long Term
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